Phunzirani za kutanthauzira kwa kuwona amalume akufa m'maloto malinga ndi Ibn Sirin

Kuona malume wakufayo m’maloto ali moyo

Kuwona amalume akufa ali moyo m'maloto kungakhale chikumbutso cha ntchito zabwino zomwe amalume anachita pa moyo wake.
Malotowa akhoza kukhala umboni wa kuthekera kwakukulu kwa amalume kusiya zotsatira zabwino pa moyo wa munthu.
Malotowo angalimbikitse munthuyo kuchita zabwino ndi kugwirizana ndi ena.

Kuwona amalume wakufa ali moyo m'maloto kungakhale chizindikiro cha moyo wa amalume akupita kudziko lina.
Malotowa akhoza kukhala chisonyezero cha zochitika zapadera zauzimu, kumene amalume alipo kwinakwake ndikuyankhulana ndi munthuyo m'maloto ake.

Kuwona amalume wakufa ali moyo m'maloto kungakhale chizindikiro cha zikumbukiro zabwino zomwe munthu amakhala nazo ndi amalume ake.
Malotowo angasonyeze kuti pali chikhumbo chokwiriridwa mu mtima wa munthuyo pa nthawi ya chisangalalo ndi mtendere zomwe adazipeza pamaso pa amalume.
Malotowa angapangitse munthu kuti ayesetse kubwezeretsa zomwe akumbukira ndikuyamikira ubale wakale.

Maloto nthawi zina amagwiritsidwa ntchito ngati njira yofotokozera zovuta ndi zovuta zomwe zilipo.
Kuwona amalume akufa ali moyo m'maloto kungakhale chenjezo la zopinga ndi zolemetsa zomwe munthuyo amakumana nazo pamoyo wake watsiku ndi tsiku.
Malotowa akhoza kukhala chenjezo pokonzekera zovuta zomwe zikubwera ndikuyang'ana njira zothetsera mavuto.

Kuwona amalume wakufa m'maloto kwa mkazi wokwatiwa

1. Kuwona amalume wakufa m'maloto kwa mkazi wokwatiwa kungakhale chizindikiro chakuti mzimu wa amalume ukuyesera kufotokoza chitonthozo ndi mtendere pambuyo pa imfa.
   Ichi chikhoza kukhala chikumbutso kwa inu kuti amalume akadali pambali panu, ndipo kuti mukuzunguliridwa ndi chikondi ndi chisamaliro chake.
2. Kuwona amalume omwe anamwalira m'maloto angasonyeze chikhumbo chanu cholumikizana ndi zakale ndikulumikizana ndi okondedwa omwe mudataya.
   Mwina pali uthenga kapena malangizo omwe malemu amalume akufuna kukupatsani, ndiye mungafunike kutchera khutu ndikumvetsetsa bwino uthengawu.
3. Ngati mukukumana ndi zovuta kapena zovuta m'banja lanu, kuwona amalume omwe anamwalira kungakhale chikumbutso kwa inu kuti akadalipo kuti akuthandizeni ndi kukuthandizani.
   Kumbukirani kuti mzimu waukulu wa amalume ukhoza kukhala ndi inu ndikukutsogolerani pamavuto.
4. Kuwona amalume akufa kungasonyeze kuti pali chenjezo kapena uphungu wofunikira umene akuyesera kukupatsani.
   Pakhoza kukhala chinachake m’banja mwanu chimene muyenera kuganizira kwambiri kapena kufunsa amalume amene anamwalira kuti akupatseni malangizo.
5. Kuwona amalume wakufa m'maloto kwa mkazi wokwatiwa kungakhale chikumbutso champhamvu kuti imfa ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la moyo.
   Masomphenyawa angakhale ndi chiyambukiro chachikulu pa kawonedwe kanu m’moyo ndikukukumbutsani za kufunika kosangalala ndi mphindi iriyonse ndi kuyamikira zimene muli nazo.

Kuwona amalume omwe anamwalira m'maloto

1.  Kulota mukuwona amalume omwe anamwalira kungasonyeze kuti mukufuna kusunga kukumbukira kwanu ndikugwirizana ndi zakale.
   Mwina mukumusowa ndipo mungakonde kukacheza naye kapena kulankhulana naye m’njira inayake.
2.  Kuwona amalume omwe anamwalira m'maloto angasonyeze chitonthozo ndi chitetezo chomwe munamva pamene anali moyo.
   Mungakhale ndi chikhumbo chofuna kumva chichirikizo ndi chitetezo chimenecho kachiwiri.
3.  Ngati amalume omwe anamwalira amatanthauza zambiri kwa inu, kulota kuti mumuwona kungakhale njira yothetsera chisoni ndi kutaya komwe mukumva chifukwa chomutaya.
   Malotowo akhoza kukulimbikitsani kuti muthe kuthana ndi malingaliro anu bwino ndikupita patsogolo.
4.  Kuwona achibale omwe anamwalira m'maloto ndi njira yolumikizirana ndi dziko lauzimu.
   Kulota mukuwona amalume omwe anamwalira kungasonyeze kuti akukuyang'anani kapena akuyesera kulankhulana nanu m'njira zopanda thupi.
5.  Maloto owona amalume omwe anamwalira atha kukhala uthenga wolozera chidwi chanu pazikhalidwe zabanja ndi miyambo yomwe amalume angakhale adasangalala nayo m'moyo wake.
   Malotowa atha kukutsogolerani kuti mutsatire izi ndikusunga kulumikizana ndi banja lonse.

Kuona amalume akufa akumwetulira mmaloto

1.  Amalume amene anamwalira akumwetulira m’maloto akhoza kukhala uthenga wabwino kapena wolimbikitsa: Kuona amalume amene anamwalira akumwetulira kungatanthauze kuti moyo wake uli m’malo osangalala ndipo akufuna kufalitsa chimwemwe ndi chisangalalo kwa amoyo.
2.  Amalume amene anamwalira angakhale akusonyeza malingaliro abwino amene anali nawo kwa inu pamene anali moyo.
   Kumuona akumwetulira kungatanthauze kuti angafune kukukumbutsani za kukoma mtima ndi chikondi chimene anakupatsani m’mbuyomo.
3. Amalume akufa akumwetulira m'maloto angatanthauzenso kuti akukupatsani chitonthozo ndi chilimbikitso: loto ili likhoza kusonyeza mkhalidwe wachimwemwe ndi bata.
   Kuwona amalume akufa akumwetulira kungakhale chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kwake kwauzimu ndi chithandizo, ndipo kungakupatseni chilimbikitso.

Kuwona amalume anga akufa m'maloto ali moyo kwa akazi osakwatiwa

1. Kuwona amalume anu omwe anamwalira ali moyo m’maloto kungakhale chizindikiro cha chifundo cha Mulungu ndi chikondi chake pa inu.
   Malotowa akhoza kukhala chitonthozo chochokera kwa Mulungu kwa inu ndi chikumbutso chakuti okondedwa omwe mudataya akadali pafupi ndi mtima wanu ndi moyo wanu.
2. Kaŵirikaŵiri timamva kuti achibale amene anamwalira ali anzeru ndi onyamula chidziŵitso ndi zokumana nazo.
   Kuona amalume anu amene anamwalira ali moyo kungasonyeze kuti mukufuna kuwafunsa kapena kupindula ndi chidziŵitso chawo ndi nzeru zawo.
   Malotowa atha kukhala chikumbutso kwa inu zamakhalidwe ndi mfundo zomwe amalume anu omwe anamwalira.
3. Kuwona amalume anu omwe anamwalira ali moyo m'maloto kungasonyeze kuti muyenera kuganizira zomwe zikuchitika m'moyo wanu.
   Malotowa atha kukhala akukuyitanirani kuti muganizire ndi kulingalira njira ya moyo wanu ndikupanga zisankho zofunika.
   Malotowa angakhale chikumbutso chakuti muyenera kudzisamalira nokha ndikusamalira thanzi lanu lamaganizo ndi lauzimu.
4. Kulota kuti mukuwona amalume anu omwe anamwalira ali moyo m'maloto angasonyeze mgwirizano wamphamvu wamaganizo umene umagwirizanitsa inu ndi banja lanu.
   Malotowa amasonyeza kuti banja liri ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri pa moyo wanu komanso kuti ndilo gwero la chithandizo, chikondi ndi chitonthozo.
5. Kulota kuti mukuwona amalume anu omwe anamwalira ali moyo m'maloto kungakhale chifukwa cha nkhawa kapena zovuta zomwe mukukumana nazo pamoyo wanu.
   Thupi lanu likhoza kuyesetsa kupeza njira zosiyanasiyana zothanirana ndi nkhawazi, ndipo kuwona amalume anu omwe anamwalira angakhale amodzi mwa iwo.

Kuwona amalume m'maloto kwa mkazi wokwatiwa

1.  Kuwona amalume m'maloto kwa mkazi wokwatiwa kungatanthauze kuti amalume akuyimira chithandizo ndi mgwirizano wa achibale ndi abwenzi m'moyo wake wamtsogolo.
   Zimenezi zingatanthauze kuti amalumewo adzamuthandiza kwambiri ndipo adzamuthandiza kuthana ndi mavuto ndi mavuto amene angakumane nawo ngati wokwatiwa.
2.  Kuwona amalume m'maloto kungasonyeze kuti mkazi wokwatiwa amafunikira uphungu ndi uphungu kuchokera kwa amalume ake pankhani za moyo wa banja ndi banja.
   Pakhoza kukhala zovuta kapena zovuta zomwe amakumana nazo ndipo amafunikira lingaliro la munthu wodziwa zambiri komanso wanzeru ngati amalume kuti amuthandize kupanga zisankho zoyenera.
3.  Ngati mkazi wokwatiwa akuwona amalume ake m'maloto, izi zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha bata ndi chitonthozo m'moyo wake waukwati.
   Masomphenya amenewa angasonyeze kuti zinthu zidzayenda bwino ndipo padzakhala chimwemwe ndi bata m’banja.
4. Kuwona amalume m'maloto kungatanthauze kuti mkazi wokwatiwa amafunikira chitsogozo ndi chitsogozo.
   Amalumewo angakhale atanyamula uthenga wachindunji woti apereke chitsogozo ndi chitsogozo panjira ya moyo wake waukwati ndi wabanja.
   Mkazi wokwatiwa ayenera kulandira uthengawu mosamala ndi kutsatira malangizo amene amalume apereka.
5.  Mkazi wokwatiwa akhoza kulota amalume omwe adachoka m'moyo uno, ndipo pamenepa malotowa angakhale chizindikiro cha kukhalapo kwa chikhumbo kapena chosowa chomwe chidakalipo kwa amalume omwe anamwalira.
   Malotowa angasonyezenso chikhumbo chosunga kukumbukira amalume ndi kumukumbukira m'moyo wa mkazi wokwatiwa.

Kuwona amalume m'maloto kwa mwamuna wokwatiwa

Ngati ndinu mwamuna wokwatira ndipo mukuwona amalume m'maloto anu, masomphenyawo angakhale ndi matanthauzo enieni okhudzana ndi chikhalidwe chaukwati ndi ubale wa banja.
Nawu mndandanda wazomwe zingatheke kutanthauzira malotowa:

1.  Kuwona amalume m'maloto kungasonyeze kuti mumamva chikhumbo chofuna kukhala msana wa banja lanu.
   Zimenezi zingakhale chikumbutso kwa inu za kufunika kwa udindo wanu monga mwamuna ndi tate wamphamvu ndi wotetezera.
2.  Kuwona amalume m'maloto kungakhale kulosera kuti mukufuna upangiri kapena chitsogozo m'moyo wanu wabanja.
   Zimenezi zikhoza kukukumbutsani kuti malangizo ochokera kwa anthu anzeru komanso odziwa zambiri ndi ofunika kwambiri.
3.  Kuwona amalume m'maloto kumatha kuwonetsa chidaliro chonse chomwe ali nacho mwa achibale anu komanso kuti amadalira inu pazinthu zonse zabanja.
   Masomphenya awa akhoza kukhala chitsimikizo cha chidaliro chawo chachikulu mwa inu ndi luso lanu.
4. Kuwona amalume m'maloto kungasonyeze kufunika kogwirizanitsa maudindo a banja ndi aumwini.
   Amalume angathandizenso kukukumbutsani kuti muyenera kupeza njira yabwino m’moyo wanu waukwati pakati pa ntchito ndi kusamalira banja.
5.  Amalume amaonedwa kuti ndi munthu amene ali ndi nzeru komanso luso pa moyo.
   Kuwona amalume m'maloto kungakhale chikumbutso kwa inu za kufunika kogwiritsa ntchito nzeru izi kuthetsa mavuto am'banja ndikukulitsa ubale wanu ndi bwenzi lanu la moyo.

Kuwona akupsompsona amalume akufa m'maloto

1.  Kukuwonani mukupsompsona amalume omwe anamwalira m'maloto angasonyeze chikhumbo chanu chotsitsimutsa kukumbukira kwanu ndi iye ndikukhalabe ogwirizana ndi tanthauzo la banja ndi mgwirizano wamphamvu pakati pa mamembala ake.
   Malotowa akhoza kukhala chisonyezero cha kufunikira kwa banja kwa inu ndi chikhumbo chosunga mzimu wa mgwirizano wa banja ngakhale mutachoka mmodzi wa mamembala ake.
2.  Kudziwona mukupsompsona amalume wakufa m'maloto kungakhale chizindikiro cha chisoni chomwe mumamva chifukwa cha imfa ya munthu wapafupi ndi inu.
   Loto ili likhoza kuwonetsa malingaliro akuzama achisoni ndi chisoni chomwe mukukumana nacho komanso chikhumbo chowafotokozera m'njira zogwirika, ngakhale kudzera m'maloto.
3.  Mwinamwake maloto akupsompsona amalume wakufa m'maloto ndi chizindikiro cha kukhumba ndi kukhumba kukhalapo kwake ndi chikondi.
   Malotowa angakhale chikumbutso cha ubale wapamtima womwe munali nawo limodzi ndi mtundu wa ubale wodzazidwa ndi chikondi ndi ulemu.
4.  Anthu ena amakhulupirira kuti maloto angakhale njira yolankhulirana pakati pa dziko lauzimu ndi lenileni.
   Kuwona akupsompsona amalume akufa m'maloto kungakhale uthenga wochokera kwa iye kwa inu.
   N’kutheka kuti akufuna kukutumizirani uthenga winawake, kaya wofuna kukuonani kapena kukupatsani malangizo kapena chichirikizo pa moyo wanu.

Kuwona amalume ndi msuweni m'maloto

1. Kuwona amalume ndi msuweni m'maloto angasonyeze kukhulupirika ndi mgwirizano wabanja.
   Masomphenya amenewa angakhale chikumbutso cha kufunika kwa banja ndi maunansi olimba pakati pa mamembala ake.
   Masomphenyawa angasonyeze kukhalapo kwa chithandizo ndi chithandizo kuchokera kwa achibale m'moyo wanu.
2. Kuwona amalume ndi msuweni m'maloto nthawi zina amakhala ngati upangiri kapena upangiri.
   Maonekedwe awo m'maloto angasonyeze kukhalapo kwa anthu awiri m'moyo wanu omwe amapereka chithandizo ndi uphungu pa zosankha zanu ndi mavuto anu.
   Masomphenyawa akusonyeza kuti pali anthu amene amasamala za maganizo anu ndipo akufuna kukuthandizani panopa.
3. Kuwona amalume ndi msuweni m'maloto kumatha kuwonetsa kulumikizana ndi maubwenzi.
   Mukhoza kukhala ndi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ambiri chifukwa cha anzanu komanso kulankhulana bwino.
   Masomphenyawa akuwonetsa kufunika kolumikizana ndi anthu m'moyo wanu ndipo akhoza kukhala chilimbikitso chosunga maubwenzi awa.
4. Kuwoneka kwa amalume ndi msuweni m'maloto kungakhale chizindikiro cha kusagwirizana kapena mikangano m'mabanja.
   Muyenera kusamala ndikuyesera kuthetsa mavuto ndi kulimbikitsa maubwenzi m'banja ngati uku ndiko kutanthauzira koyenera kwa malotowo.
5. Kuwona amalume ndi msuweni m'maloto nthawi zina kumayimira chitetezo ndi chitetezo.
   Masomphenyawa angasonyeze kudzidalira ndi chitetezo pamaso pa anthu omwe angathe kukutetezani ku mavuto ndi zovuta.