Phunzirani za kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza ine ndikusambira mu dziwe losambira malinga ndi Ibn Sirin

Ndinalota kuti ndikusambira m’dziwe

1. Dziwe ndi chizindikiro champhamvu cha kusintha ndi kumasulidwa.
   Mukasambira m'madzi, mumadzisuntha nokha kuchoka ku chikhalidwe cholemera ndi champhamvu kupita kumalo othamanga ndi opepuka.
   Momwemonso, maloto osambira padziwe angasonyeze chikhumbo chanu chofuna kusiya zoletsa zilizonse zomwe mungakhale nazo zenizeni ndikuyesetsa kukhala ndi moyo womasuka komanso wosavuta.
2. Kusambira m’madzi ndi imodzi mwa njira zabwino kwambiri zotsitsimula ndi kuthetsa nkhawa.
   Mukalota kusambira mu dziwe, izi zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha maloto anu omasuka komanso otonthoza m'maganizo.
   Mwina muyenera kudzimasula nokha ku zovuta za moyo watsiku ndi tsiku ndikupatseni nthawi yosangalatsa ndikutsitsimutsa moyo wanu.
3. Kusambira m’madzi ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zosangalatsa ndi zotsitsimula zimene zingatibweretsere chimwemwe.
   Pamene mumalota kusambira mu dziwe, izi zikhoza kukhala chisonyezero cha mkhalidwe wabwino wamaganizo ndi chikhumbo chanu chosangalala ndi mphindi zachisangalalo ndi zosangalatsa.
   Mwina mtima wanu uli wodzaza ndi chikondi ndi chisangalalo, kapena mukukumana ndi chibwenzi cholimbikitsa.
4. Ukasambira m’madzi, umamizidwa m’chinthucho n’kusiya kuzindikira za dziko lozungulira.
   Momwemonso, maloto osambira padziwe angasonyeze chikhumbo chanu chofuna kumira muzochitika za moyo ndikudziganizira nokha.
   Mungakhale mukuyesera kuti mukhale oyenerera ndikuyang'ana pa kupambana kwanu ndi zosowa zamkati.
5. Padziwe, mutha kukumana ndi anthu atsopano ndikupanga mabwenzi atsopano.
   Mukalota kusambira padziwe, izi zitha kutanthauza chikhumbo chanu chopeza maubwenzi atsopano ndikukulitsa maubwenzi anu.
   Mwina mumakopeka ndi lingaliro lakulankhulana ndikugawana malingaliro ndi malingaliro ndi ena.

Ndinalota kuti ndikusambira padziwe la mkazi wokwatiwa

1.  Maloto osambira padziwe la mkazi wokwatiwa angasonyeze kuti mukufunikira kwambiri kuti mukhale ndi nthawi yosangalatsa komanso yotsitsimula kutali ndi zovuta za tsiku ndi tsiku komanso udindo wanu monga mkazi ndi amayi.
   Malotowa akhoza kukhala chikumbutso kwa inu za kufunika kopumula ndi kuchira.
2. Kusambira m’madzi kungasonyeze chikhumbo chanu cholankhulana ndi ena ndi kusunga maubwenzi anu olimba ndi kutsitsimuka.
   Madzi amathanso kuwonetsa malingaliro akuya ndi malingaliro, ndipo mwina mudamvapo kufunika kolankhulana ndi mnzanu kuti mutsitsimutse chikondi ndi chilakolako muubwenzi.
3. Kwa mkazi wokwatiwa, kusambira padziwe kungasonyeze chikhumbo chanu chokhala ndi pakati kapena kukhala ndi ana.
   Madzi amayimira moyo ndi chonde m'matanthauzidwe ena, ndipo mwina akuwonetsa chikhumbo chanu chofuna kuyambitsa banja ndikukumana ndi zochitika zatsopano ngati mayi.
4. Kusambira m’madzi kungasonyezenso chikhumbo chanu cha ufulu ndi kudziimira.
   Kusambira ndi njira yodziyimira yokha yomwe mumasankha nokha ndikudzilamulira nokha.
   Maloto osambira padziwe la mkazi wokwatiwa angakhale chikumbutso kwa inu za kufunika kosunga umunthu wanu ndikuwonetsetsa kuti zokhumba zanu zikukwaniritsidwanso.

Ndinalota kuti ndikusambira mu dziwe la mbeta

1. Kudziwona mukusambira mu dziwe limodzi kungakhale chizindikiro cha chisangalalo ndi chitonthozo chamkati chomwe mumamva.
   Malotowa akhoza kukhala chizindikiro cha nthawi yosangalatsa m'moyo wanu.
2. Dziwe la mkazi wosakwatiwa nthawi zina limaimira ufulu ndi ufulu waumwini, ndipo kudziwona nokha mukusambira mmenemo kungasonyeze chikhumbo chanu cha kudziimira ndi kumasuka ku zoletsedwa za anthu.
3. Maloto osambira padziwe la mkazi wosakwatiwa angasonyeze kufunafuna chisangalalo ndi chisangalalo m'moyo wanu.
   Masomphenya amenewa angakhale chikumbutso kwa inu za kufunika kosangalala ndi moyo nokha komanso zomwe mukuyembekezera.
4. Kusambira mu dziwe kwa mkazi wosakwatiwa kungakhale chizindikiro chosiya zochitika zakale ndikukhala otseguka kwa mwayi watsopano mu maubwenzi okondana.
   Mwina kudziwona mukusambira pamalowa kukuwonetsa kuti mukufuna kukhala ndi nkhani yatsopano yachikondi ndikukwaniritsa bwino moyo wanu wachikondi.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza kusambira mu dziwe Ndi anthu

1. Kulota kusambira mu dziwe ndi anthu angasonyeze chikhumbo chanu kucheza ndi kuchita maubwenzi atsopano.
   Mutha kuyang'ana kuti mulumikizane, kuyanjana ndi ena, ndikugawana zomwe mwakumana nazo.
2. Kudziwona mukusambira pamodzi ndi anthu ena m’dziwe kumasonyeza kufunika kochitira zinthu pamodzi m’moyo wanu.
   Mutha kuona kufunika kodalira gululo ndikugwira ntchito limodzi kuti mukwaniritse zolinga zanu.
3. Kulota kusambira mu dziwe ndi anthu kungasonyeze mphamvu ya mgwirizano ndi kumvetsa m'moyo wanu.
   Mungafunike kudalira ndi kugwirizana ndi ena kuti mukwaniritse bwino komanso chitukuko chanu.
4. Kulota kusambira mu dziwe ndi anthu angasonyeze chikhumbo chanu cha zovuta ndi mpikisano.
   Mutha kuona kufunika kochita zomwe mungathe kuti mupambane ndi ena ndikuwonetsetsa luso lanu.
5. Kudziwona mukusambira mu dziwe ndi anthu kungasonyeze chikhumbo chanu cha ufulu ndi kumasuka ku dziko lakunja.
   Mutha kukhala mukuyang'ana zatsopano ndi zochitika ndi anthu omwe ali ndi zokonda ndi zokonda zomwezo.

Ndinalota kuti ndikusambira m’dziwe lakuya

1.  Kusambira mu dziwe lakuya kumatha kuwonetsa kumverera kwaufulu komanso kutha kuthana ndi zovuta m'moyo.
   Mofanana ndi mmene munthu amakhalira womasuka komanso womasuka posambira, kudziona akusambira m’dziwe lakuya kungakhale chizindikiro cha mphamvu zake zamkati ndi kudalira luso lake.
2.  Kusambira mu dziwe lakuya kungakhale chizindikiro cha zovuta zazikulu zomwe mumakumana nazo pamoyo wanu.
   Kuzama kwa dziwe kumatha kuwonetsa zovuta zamavuto kapena kukangana komwe mukukumana nako.
   Ngati mukuda nkhawa kapena kuchita mantha m’malotowa, zikhoza kukhala chizindikiro chakuti mukuvutika maganizo komanso mukuda nkhawa ndi zinthu zimene muyenera kukumana nazo pamoyo wanu.
3. Oweruza ena amaona kuti kusambira mu dziwe lakuya ndi chizindikiro cha kusintha ndi kukonzanso.
   Ngati mukumva kukhala osangalala komanso omasuka pamene mukusambira mu dziwe lakuya, zingatanthauze kuti mwakonzeka kusintha moyo ndikuyesetsa kukwaniritsa zolinga zatsopano.
   Malotowa akhoza kukhala chisonyezero chakuti muli mu siteji ya kusintha maganizo kapena akatswiri.
4.  Kudziwona mukusambira mu dziwe lakuya kungakhale chizindikiro chakuti mwamizidwa mu malingaliro akuya ndi malingaliro.
   Zitha kuwonetsa kuti mukukumana ndi zokumana nazo zamphamvu kapena mukukumana ndi zovuta mu ubale wanu.
   Loto ili lingakulimbikitseni kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro omveka bwino komanso kumvetsetsa mozama zamalingaliro.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto omwe ndikusambira mu dziwe kwa mimba

1. Maloto a mayi woyembekezera akusambira m’dziwe angasonyeze kuti mayi woyembekezerayo afunika kumasuka ndi kukonzekera siteji yotsatira, yomwe ndi yobereka.
   Kusambira ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zomwe zimathandiza kuchepetsa ululu wa mimba komanso kukuthandizani kuti mukhale omasuka.
   Malotowa angakhale chikumbutso kwa mayi wapakati kuti amafunikira nthawi yochepa yopumula ndikudzisamalira yekha mwana asanabadwe.
2. Maloto a mayi woyembekezera akusambira padziwe angasonyeze zovuta ndi zovuta zomwe mayi wapakati amakumana nazo pa nthawi ya mimba.
   Ngakhale kuti kusambira kumaonedwa kuti ndi ntchito yathanzi komanso yopumula, amayi oyembekezera amakumana ndi mavuto atsopano komanso osadziwika bwino m’miyoyo yawo ndipo amakhala ndi nkhawa zokhudza kubereka komanso kusamalira mwana watsopano.
   Malotowa angakhale chikumbutso kwa mayi wapakati kuti amatha kuthana ndi mavutowa ndikukonzekera.
3. Maloto a mayi woyembekezera akusambira m’dziwe angasonyeze kuti mayi woyembekezerayo amafunitsitsa kuchita zinthu zinazake kapena kuchita zinthu zimene analephera kuchita chifukwa cha mimbayo.
   Azimayi oyembekezera angayembekezere kusambira, kusangalala ndi madzi, ndi kuchotsa kunenepa kwambiri ndi kupsinjika maganizo.
   Malotowa angakhale chisonyezero cha zilakolako zosakwaniritsidwa izi zomwe mungathe kuzikwaniritsa mutabereka.
4. Maloto okhudza kusambira mu dziwe kwa mayi wapakati angasonyeze kumverera kwa kumasulidwa ndi kupepuka.
   Kusambira kumathandiza kuthetsa nkhawa ndi kupsinjika maganizo komanso kumapereka chitonthozo ndi ufulu.
   Izi ndi zomwe mayi woyembekezera angafune, makamaka panthawi yomwe ali ndi pakati, popeza mayi woyembekezerayo angamve kulemera kwa thupi lake ndipo angakumane ndi zovuta kuyenda momasuka.
   Kulota za kusambira kungakhale chikumbutso kwa mayi wapakati kuti amatha kumva kumasulidwa ndi kuwala ngakhale mu nthawi yamakono.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto okhudza kusambira mu dziwe usiku

1. M'matanthauzidwe ambiri, madzi m'maloto amaimira maganizo ndi maganizo.
   Kudziwona mukusambira mu dziwe usiku kungasonyeze kugwirizana kwanu ndi malingaliro anu akuya ndi mbali yamaganizo.
   Loto ili likhoza kuwonetsa kuti mumachita bwino ndi malingaliro anu ndikuyesetsa kukwaniritsa malingaliro anu.
2. Nthawi yeniyeni m'maloto ikhoza kukhala ndi tanthauzo lake.
   Usiku m'maloto ukhoza kutanthauza chinsinsi ndi kubisika, ndipo kudziwona mukusambira mu dziwe usiku kungasonyeze kufunikira kofufuza malingaliro anu akuya ndi malingaliro anu.
   Mungafunike kuganizira za inu nokha komanso nkhani zomwe zilipo.
3. Ngati mumakhala omasuka komanso omasuka pamene mukusambira mu dziwe usiku, zingatanthauze kuti moyo wanu umakhala wodekha komanso womasuka.
   Mwina mwapeza chimwemwe ndi mtendere wamumtima.
4. Ngati mukuwoneka m'maloto anu ndi luso lalikulu la kusambira ndikumverera kuti mukuwongolera mayendedwe anu m'madzi, izi zikhoza kukhala chisonyezero cha kudzidalira kwanu ndi kuthekera kwanu kuthana ndi zovuta pamoyo wanu watsiku ndi tsiku.
   Mwinamwake mwagonjetsa zopinga ndipo mukulamulira njira yanu yaumwini.
5.  Kulota kusambira mu dziwe usiku kungasonyeze kukonzekera kudzifufuza komanso chitukuko chaumwini.
   Muyenera kuyang'ana kwambiri kuyang'ana mkati, kumvetsetsa zolinga zanu ndi zokhumba zanu, ndikugwirizanitsa mbali zosiyanasiyana za moyo wanu.

Ndinalota ndikusambira m’dziwe la mkazi wosudzulidwa

1.  Maloto osambira padziwe la mkazi wosudzulidwa akhoza kukhala chisonyezero cha chikhumbo chanu chopumula ndikukhala opanda nkhawa za moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku.
   Kusambira ndi ntchito yotsitsimula komanso yopumula, ndipo malotowo angasonyeze kufunikira kwanu kuti muchoke ku nkhawa ndikupezanso mphamvu.
2. Chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zingatheke kuti maloto osambira padziwe kwa mkazi wosudzulidwa amaimira ufulu ndi ufulu.
   Kudziwona mukusambira momasuka mu dziwe loperekedwa kwa akazi osudzulidwa kungasonyeze chikhumbo chanu cha kudziimira ndi kulamulira moyo wanu waumwini popanda zoletsa.
3. Maloto a mkazi wosudzulidwa akusambira mu dziwe angakhale chizindikiro cha ndondomeko ya kukonzanso ndi kusintha kwaumwini.
   Kusambira kungasonyeze kudzikhazikitsanso ndikugonjetsa zovuta zakale.
   Malotowo akhoza kukhala chikumbutso kwa inu kuti mutha kuyambanso ndikusintha moyo wanu.
4. Maloto osambira padziwe la mkazi wosudzulidwa angasonyeze chikhumbo chanu chopeza kudzipatula ndi kulingalira kwamkati.
   Madzi ndi chizindikiro cha kuya ndi uzimu, ndipo apa mzimu ukhoza kuyesa kupeza mtendere wamkati ndikuyang'ana mbali zauzimu za moyo.
5.  Maloto osambira padziwe la mkazi wosudzulidwa amasonyeza kuti mungathe kukwaniritsa zofuna zanu ndi zolinga zanu.
   Malotowo akhoza kukhala chilimbikitso kwa inu kuti mutha kuchita bwino komanso kuchita bwino pazantchito zanu komanso moyo wanu.

Kutanthauzira kwa maloto osambira m'madzi oyera

1.  Mwina maloto osambira m'madzi oyera akuwonetsa chikhumbo chofuna kumizidwa kwathunthu mumalingaliro anu ndi malingaliro anu.
   Zingasonyeze kuti mukumva kufunikira kopuma ndikuyandikira mbali zakuya zaumwini.
2. Kusambira m'madzi oyera kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi ufulu ndi mphamvu.
   Malotowo angakhale chizindikiro chakuti mumamasuka ku zoletsedwa ndi zovuta zomwe mumakumana nazo pamoyo wanu.
   Masomphenyawa angatanthauzenso mphamvu zanu zamkati ndi luso logonjetsa zovuta.
3.  Madzi osambira omveka bwino nthawi zambiri amaimira chiyero ndi kubwezeretsanso mphamvu ndi mphamvu.
   Kulota kusambira m'madzi oyera kungakhale chikumbutso kuti mukhale ndi thanzi labwino m'maganizo ndi thupi, ndikupita ku kutsitsimuka ndi kusinkhasinkha.
4. Ngati mukumva ngati kusambira m'madzi oyera okha, izi zingasonyeze kuti mukufuna kuchoka kunja ndikukhala nokha ndikuyang'ana maiko atsopano amkati.
   Malotowo angakhale chikumbutso kuti mupumule, kuganiza mozama, ndi kumvetsera mawu anu amkati.
5. Mukamasambira m’madzi oyera, zingasonyeze kuti mumadziona kuti ndinu woyenerera komanso kuti mumalamulira moyo wanu.
   Malotowo akhoza kusonyeza malingaliro abwino kuti zinthu zonse m'moyo wanu zikuyenda bwino komanso kuti muli ndi mphamvu ndi mphamvu zolamulira zinthu.